It never ceases to amaze me how you can take two people who like each other and can talk about anything and screw it all up in less than 60 seconds. All you have to do is get them talking politics. (Sis, I am not talking about you and me. he he he…) Immediately all good will goes out the door and they are, at least for a time, mortal enemies. You can almost criticize someone’s Mother before you can their candidate or office holder. Don’t believe me, try it sometime. But don’t blame me when I am wrong and that Mama joke gets you a black eye. I did say “almost”.
You can even give people a chance to be positive and they’ll take a shot. I posted an honest question on Facebook about Obama and whether his supporters still felt the “hope”. I wanted to see if they were as fervent a month in as they were a month before the inauguration. Some actually answered the question with no political statement infused in the answer and no knocks on the other side. At least one response I remember decided to take yet another swipe, and a few others were defensive in their answer. I guess they assumed I meant ill with the question. In hindsight I shouldn’t have put hope in quotations, but I think too much hope in politicians is a bit silly, no matter who you like. That probably made some people think I was asking the question to catch them and pull them into a debate. That was not my intent.
But seriously, it’s crazy how we fight the way we do when we have so many things to overcome. I know it’s human nature and I know it’s not going away, but I just wish people would learn to think more about their own issues and actually listen to the other side. Generally, that person on the other side is not a monster and actually has good intentions. They are hoping for the best, just like you. They are someone’s son or daughter, brother or sister. They love their kids and want good things for them, just like you.Both sides have kind hearted and caring people. They give to charity and look out for those who can’t look out for themselves.
On the flip side neither contingency has the market cornered on morality. People on both sides have had abortions, affairs, lied, stolen, coveted, and committed every other sin you can think of. We are a wretched lot at times. Lest you think your side has the moral high ground, think again. I will throw out a few high profile names. Bill Clinton, Ted Haggard, Rod Blagojevich, Larry Craig, and Tom Delay…
So try and show a little grace. Have open and honest debate. Be willing to admit the areas your side is lacking in. Treat the person you are talking to in a manner you’d like to be treated. Kindness and respect are powerful things my friends.
Good day.
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